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Flying with Babies for First Time Parents

Flying on Lufthansa’s B747-400 with 14-month old baby Athena for the first time is quite an experience. For starters, taking off involves using the following cool contraption.

Baby seatbelt

YES, there is actually a safety seatbelt for babies on planes (this is for all you first-time parents out there).  How does it work? Essentially, it enables you to seat the baby on one’s lap. See the middle loop there? Thread your own adult seatbelt through the loop, and belt up baby and yourself. The Lufthansa people will offer this before take-off.
Worried about pressure changes resulting in blocked ears for babies? Would advise that you start feeding the baby as the plane is moving onto the runway and/or approaching the destination. Apart from clearing blocked ears, the comfort afforded by drinking or eating milk/food is added assurance for those easily disturbed by machine sounds. Baby Athena cries from hearing vacuum cleaners, but it was a wonder she wasn’t bothered by airplane engines and slept through most of our 11hr-long flight from Singapore to Frankfurt!
If you don’t see the baby bassinet upon boarding or sitting down, don’t gan chiong! After taking-off, it will be brought in for you. The perks of bringing babies on planes? You get decent legroom even for 1.8+m folks like me. For those who have never seen baby bassinets on the planes and wondering where could they possibly find space to place the bassinets, they are attached to the walls so that you have all the legroom to cross your legs, stand up without stepping on your baby.

Legroom!

Leg room is not completely without tradeoffs though. It is compulsory for you to put carry-on luggage in overhead compartments instead of under the seat in front of you (what seat!?!).
Lufthansa’s bassinet can hold up to 14kg (note to self: some airlines can only hold up to 10kg, best if check beforehand). If your baby is taller than normal, it is probably still ok as babies sleep with bent knees half the time. Are you the constantly worried about the worst-case scenarios of flying?  Like what if the plane goes through turbulence and your baby is flung to the ceiling? Never fear! There’s even a very comfy belt that you can use to secure the baby.

Baby Bassinet Belt

There’s even a cover that helps block out the light if you’re needing to read or write on the plane.

Cover helps shield baby's eyes from reading lights!

Does one need to buy an extra ticket for a 14-month old baby? The answer (at least in Lufthansa’s case) depends on the age of your baby during the return flight – if he/she is older than 2-years old, there is a need to buy a ticket, although it will be subsidised rates (50% I think). In any case, I think it is a welcome relief (small luxuries in life) to have an extra seat. If you’re bringing a big carry-on that needs to be put in the overhead compartment, it is advisable to still have a smaller, handier one that holds just enough supplies for the occasional feed, disposable bibs, diaper change or toys that keep them quiet.
If your baby is already on solids, bring those powdered things that turn gooey upon mixing in hot water for consumption. Alternatively, I highly recommend those very cool Japanese instant-ready-to-eat porridge-in-a-pack that can be consumed just by heating it up by placing the whole pack in hot water or simply microwaving it before consumption… Yes you heard me… microwave safe packets! Only the Japanese can come up with it lor! There are two such packets in each box, i.e. each packet costs S$4+, portions are small by adult standards but they taste absolutely fabulous (Ok ok, I admit I have entertained thoughts of bringing these to the jungles during reservist military training). The one in the picture is seaweed flavour and I highly recommend it – Singaporean palates are hard to please and if I say it is good, it is reaaally good.

Tasty Baby Porridge from Japan

Don’t get stressed if your baby cries and you’re worried about waking or traumatising the rest of the plane. Most of the passengers will likely be too zonked out to notice, plus you might get extra food or toys from the air stewardess as a result. Hohoho! Enjoy your flight!

Goodbye Plaisir Ensemble!

After 3 days of fun stay in Singapore, we bid farewell to representatives of the Plaisir Ensemble + Hong Kong City Choir (Laurence!) and their conductor Mr Jack Man.  I will miss the long chats with like-minded Mr Man, a thinker, musician and gentleman.

from left: Laurence, Hazel, Janet, Mr Man, Albert, Annica & Athena, Jessica.

You will be missed!

Visit to Universal Studio Singapore

I first met Hong Kong’s Plaisir Ensemble and their conductor Mr Man (think cantonese) at a choral festival held in Vietnam this year.  It was a happy coincidence that they could be in town en route home from Sri Lanka and we decided to meet up and hang out!

Hosting them was a real pleasure…  Not only was there fantastic sharing of food, music, philosophy and ideas etc., it was also a very good excuse to give myself a break and have my maiden visit to the famed Universal Studio Singapore (ya ya, I’m a foreigner in my own country) together with Mrs Tay!

While getting onto the monorail en route to Sentosa, we ended up queuing at the exact door where some of my ex-SAJC choir students were waiting to go to USS as well!  It was great to hear how they’re all in university and doing well.  相见不如偶遇, so we took a quick picture once we alighted from the monorail.

The ex-SAJC choir gang still hanging out after all these years!

More amazing coincidental meetings with ex-students to follow!  By chance I met Gail from Crescent Girls School who is now singing in the ACJC alumni choir…

Gail formerly from Crescent Girls School

Jiayi formerly from River Valley High School Choir!

and turns out that Jiayi, formerly from River Valley High School choir is also singing with Gail at the ACJC Alumni choir.  Am really happy these students are continuing to enrich their lives with music and choral singing!  May you two have more fun singing and making music together in years to come!

Anyways, it is a big bonus that Mrs Tay now has good company for all her mind-blowing, life-expectancy-slashing rides while the two conductors tried to keep their feet firmly planted on terra firma (where possible) and have a quiet sharing about music and life…  I mean check out the sheer height of this monster ride… it must have been like 15 storeys high or something.

The reaaally crazy ride…

Of course, not all the rides were this hardcore.  The Madagascar ride was pretty infant-in-arms  friendly, the Mummy ride quite thrilling and probably more suited to older kids with a strong heart for speed, sudden drops and other what-nots.

WaterWorld show is a spectacular stunts display by an excellent crew of fantastic stuntmen and 1 woman.  Expect loud explosions, pyrotechnics, wet clothes (not just the actors’, especially if you sit in the middle column closer to stage) and fantastic surprises.  Kudos to these dedicated men and woman for a really great show.  Those with babies, bring ear muffs.

It has been a very long time since I’ve had this much fun at a theme park with Mrs Tay!  What a happy day of happy coincidences and conversations with like-minded colleagues!!

Mr and Mrs Tay in Far Far Away Land

Life & Death

Are they lacking composers and singers in heaven?  Leong Yoon Pin’s departure was not that long ago and now, I just received news of the death of a wonderful Taiwanese-German soprano whom I’ve had the good fortune of meeting, work with and learn from in the 2010 Taipei Bach Festival.

Life can be full of surprises indeed, a real reminder that our time on earth is a short one where one should live life to the fullest.  Life is too short to live unhappily.

Mdm 佩穎, Requiescant in pace. Thank you for blessing us with your beautiful soprano voice during the Taiwan St John Passion. Your generous spirit and humble outlook is an inspiration to all who’ve had the good fortune of working with you.  You will be missed!